An unbiased list of active qualities that makes a winner, that's our goal.
I'll start.
1. One who has a career or job they enjoy.
2. One who has a suffient amount of sex to satisfy them (as we now this is subjective).
3. One who can support themselves (i.e. rent, bills, food).
4. One who is living with a phonebook of people that actually call (if you have a name in your phonebook of a person who has not called you in six months, delete).
5. One who can stand up for themselves or others if necessary.
6. One who says "no" even if others say they should say "yes".
7. One who is loyal to those they care about.
8. One who is honest.
9. One who can listen without waiting for openings.
10. One who walks their own path and is happy even if they don't meet any of these qualities (they are an asshole though).
Your Turn. Feel free to add to this list. Or even take something away, but things taken away must be replaced :-)1/15/2011 (added)
11. The ability to adapt and change.
